We named it mom because, honestly, in most households the mother is the one running the operation — and that work has gone unnamed and untooled for too long. The name is a tribute to her, not a fence around the door.
If you are a father raising children on your own, a grandparent who took it on, or a guardian by any other route, the routines, circles and creator lane are yours to use exactly as they are.
What does not bend is the dignity floor. Whoever the guardian is, their data is their own, no other household member sees it by default, and nothing here is sold or turned into advertising.
Shape a routine, or sit in a circle — the door is open.